to have a profoundly tender, passionate affection for (another person).
to have a strong liking for; take great pleasure in
to need or require; benefit greatly from
There ya go, my three favorite definitions for Love.
Most popular definition of love: You know you’re in love when you can’t sleep because reality is better then dreams.
In case you haven’t noticed yet, I have a different definition of love. Many of you have heard me say that I don’t believe in love. To some extent it’s very true. I don’t believe in the kind of love that makes girls lose sleep, or the kind of love that people ruin their future’s for. The love that makes a girl do something she doesn’t want to do just to make it happy. The love that makes a girl murder her own child because love will get mad. The love that steals what is most beautiful and precious and takes it and twists it into a deformed mass of ruin. I don’t believe in that love… In fact that isn’t even love. That’s the world’s perception of what they want to be love. Well, I have a little surprise quiz for you.
DO YOU LOVE HIM!?!?!?!
Write your answers on a seperate piece of paper.
1)You’re walking down the street with the man of your dreams and suddenly a psycho axe murderer pops out in front of you, demanding one of you dies. Would you die in his stead?
2)You get a call in the middle of an all-girls night, the man of your dreams is crying. What do you do?
3)The man of your dreams just died, are you still alive?
If you love him, the answers should be 1)Yes. 2)my pain is his pain. explain to the girls and go comfort my man. 3)no.
The true definition of love doesn’t say anything about Sex, being a fool, silly infatuation, or whatever tag you put onto love when you hear the word. In the world’s eyes, I’m incapable of love. I CAN”T have a silly infatuation. I CAN”T be a fool over someone. My reason will never leave me no matter how much I want a relationship to work. I can never “love” someone enough to trash my morals and values just to make us feel good for a short time. Love is the part where you don’t have to do anything for them, and they don’t have anything to do for you. Love is where you will give anything for the better of them and expect nothing in return. It’s where you lay everything on the line for them and trust that they’re not going to trash it.
The truth comes out: I’m in love, and It’s because of that that I look at what everyone calls love and I feel… compassionate… because there are so many people who want to fill a hole in their life with love, but they can’t because honest and true love can’t be found in this world. No one is perfect. everyone falls short of what’s expected in some way or the other. Nothing less then perfect can fill the whole in everyone’s heart. But I’m in love with the only perfect man to ever have walked the earth.
To be honest, I’m having a very…. distracting conversation right now. So if my thoughts aren’t completed… just holler and I’ll finish the thought for ya.