I can understand the frustration with what other people think–and wanting them to see you like you see you. But the important thing is how God sees you. Strive to do everything for His glory and you’ll still have “bad” people saying you’re too goody-two-shoes. You’ll still have “good” people saying you’re SOOO BAD, too–but you’ll have a God (whose opinion is far beyond that of us mere mortals) saying “well done, good and faithful servant.” Strive for that commendation.

I Timothy 2:8-10 “I desire then that in every place the men should pray, lifting holy hands without anger or quarreling; likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works.”

The importantest part is that you’re adorning yourself with peace, with modesty, with self control, and with good works–not whether your hair is braided (as mine is) or your eyeliner is heavy.